Now, we are not saying that all of the following things are the only indicators that your girlfriend is cheating on you, there can be many others as well depending on the kind of person she is. The following are sure give away, or more like a rookie mistake that people tend to make when they are cheating. If you disagree with any of the mentioned behaviors you can tell us in the comment section why you feel that they are not signs of someone cheating. Let’s see what you know about the human behavior.
Here are 12 obvious signs that your girlfriend is cheating on you.
1.The nagging won’t stop:
If you are with a girl that has been nagging you from day one that we are not talking to you, the kind of nagging we are talking about is that out of nowhere she became super nagging. This can be a way of showing that she is not satisfied with your relationship anymore. Now, you have to be the judge on whether you suck as a boyfriend or she is doing it for no reasons whatsoever. Try your best to make the nagging stop, make the changes she wants you to make and if that is not pleasing her the sliest than there is a good chance that she is or will cheat on you.
2.The new friend:
So people meet people, people often meet great people that become their friend just after one conversation. But what is not normal is that she has one special friend that she keeps on yapping about but never lets you meet him. Now the key word here is “HIM” to be very clear we are not suggesting you to know her every friend, you have your life, and she has hers you both are allowed friends that are not mutual, but you can tell when she doesn’t want you being around someone. If that someone happens to be a very good special new friend than you my friend are screwed.
3.You’re, as in the boyfriend’s schedule:
Wait what does that have to do…ok listen, now if you had someone that was always super interested in where you went or ate or what day you had a super long meeting at work, then you just have a bit, clingy girlfriend. But if your girlfriend wasn’t like that, and now it almost lies she needs to know where you are at all times there is only two reason for that one is that she is being jealous of someone that spends a little too much time around you or the second, she needs to know your routine so she can spend some time with someone else.
For this one, just make sure to have a look at the calendar first maybe your birthday is coming up.
4.Focused..? What’s that?
If you two are engaged in an activity that the both of you found exciting and fun but she seems like she is busy doing something in her head well then you have a reason to be worried. You can always assume that she is not into that activity anymore and yeah that should be your first thought, so try something new and fun to do. However, if you see that she is constantly spacing out and there is nothing going on in her life that should distract her that much you might need a new gf soon.
5.You shall not touch her phone:
Hey, privacy is privacy, we get that, but there is nothing wrong with letting your partner see your phone if they ask. If she suddenly has a no hands on phone policy, then that is a big red flag. Hiding or hogging the phone screams I’m hiding something so we shouldn’t have to tell you what is going on.
6.Sex no more:
So you went from twice a day to twice last month and none after that…yeah if she is with you and she doesn’t want you touching her that is a big sign that you are not the one she wants touching her anymore. Now, before you get all crazy you have to rule out all the possible reasons, use your head. If she had a super long day and you had sex yesterday, you can let her have a day off.
We are talking about hesitance and staying at a distance from you, that is when you need to be worried about that.
7.The phone says hi:
No matter what she is going to be on the phone, all day all time? Now we get that there are a lot of reason one would be on the phone but if that on phone time just doubled along with one of these other signs that you are getting cheated on.
8.No space for you:
No time for you, hogging the phone and she won’t let you look at the phone, and now she says that she doesn’t have any free time? You might as well just break up now. Now the thing is you shouldn’t be a needy man and want to go everywhere with her, but she should find time to spend with you.
9.Changing up her wardrobe:
Buying new clothes and new shoes isn’t something to be afraid of, but if she is completely switching up her wardrobe to something completely new, something that you thought she would never wear then you need to think about a lot of stuff. Oh, be especially afraid of new unseen sexy panties or bra.
10.Mutual friends moving apart:
If someone doesn’t talk to their friends but suddenly they have a beef with your mutual is kind of odd. This will make more sense if you have a lot of mutual and they don’t want to spend time with any of them. Mutual are snitches, so they don’t want to be around them.
11.The phone, again:
If she won’t answer the calls, any calls in front of you then that is a sign that she doesn’t want you to hear something. There are a number of reasons why this is bad and if you want us to tell you why then you are quite new at this aren’t you.
Being in a relationship means that often times you have to give up a small part of your independence so they can create a better bond of mutual respect and understand. If the other person can’t understand that and especially in mid-way of the relationship, then there are a lot of things wrong with this picture my friend.